I know what it’s like to wake up in a world you don’t recognize, where nothing feels steady and hope seems out of reach; but its not.
We share something sacred: a love that didn't end with death. Although we can't hold them, we can carry them in our Hearts —and start living like we matter. Because you do!
Our stories are different, but we know the same GRIEF.
Our stories
are different, but we know the same ache.
The day my whole world Shattered...
On July 26, 2018, my son, Jeremy Stoke, laid his life down on the frontlines of the Carr Fire in Redding, California. A decorated firefighter of nearly 20 years. Jeremy was doing what he had always done—running toward danger so others could run to safety.
The day he died, the ground under my feet gave way. The world I knew split wide open. Nothing anyone said could lift the weight pressing against my chest.
In the raw, tension between fear and faith, the Spirit of Truth met me. Not to erase my circumstance, or rush me to heal But to sit with me in the devastation, and show me what still remained: Truth, Joy and Love.
Healing didn’t mean letting go or leaving him behind. It meant letting love anchor me as I walked forward carrying his legacy, his spirit, and the story of a life laid down in love.
Like you, I know the devastation of loss, and the hard beautiful work rebuilding life after it. You don't have to figure it out. Just start, right here, where you are.
My story
Love is stronger than the grave.
Grief may have changed your life but it doesn’t define your future.
Love is still here. And it knows the way forward.
Here's what I do believe:
Their love is still alive—stitched into the fabric of your becoming.
Grief needs space—but it was never meant to be your resting place.
The Spirit of Truth meets us in the ruins of loss and walks us into new life.
Choosing life doesn’t diminish their value—it honors them.
Your story is waiting to be told
Are you ready to begin?
The next chapter of your life isn’t about going back—it’s about rising into who you were always meant to become. Your story doesn’t end in the wreckage. It begins when you step into the arena of life with honesty, transparency, and courage. The Spirit will lead the way—guiding your healing, shaping your story into a living testimony of redemption: theirs, and yours. Your job is to turn the page.
That’s why I’m here, making room for your story—all of it. The questions you're afraid to ask. The doubts you barely whisper. The pain you thought no one could understand. In this place, you'll find more than answers and tools. You'll discover a path shaped by God's unwavering faithfulness and awaken to Love that transforms everything.
Together, we'll uncover how your deepest wounds can become a source of hope and your darkest chapters can highlight your future while brightening someone else's path. Because your story matters, and there's room at the table of grace for all of it.
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